Hedonism is a selfish pursuit. However, the enlightened hedonist knows that other people at an important role in achieving one's desires.
We are social animals and take pleasure in being or interacting with others whether that's sharing an interest, a kink, or a story.
I hope today you'll reach out to all those around you that help you satisfy your selfish desires, your friends, your lovers, and your co-conspirators. Share your love and watch it grow.